Youth Ministry: What the Central Coast needs

The Central Coast has been in the SMH a bunch of times in the last 2 days: here (pics) on old and young alike wasting time at Erina Fair (see my post here); here on transport; here on gangs; here on a local teenage model; and more here (pics) on Friday nights at Erina Fair.

The article: Bored and isolated teenagers run wild, brought me to tears this morning. Here’s a snippet:

Beyond the narrow band of wealth clinging to the coast, where the beach provides a source of entertainment, young people say they have little to do. At worst, these teenagers pass their time drinking, taking drugs and having sex. Children say they start using alcohol at 12 and many have lost their virginity by 13.

Quite often we have teenagers too young to go to clubs, too old to watch cartoons, too poor to go to the movies who walk through/past our youth group venue (not fair from Erina Fair) on a Friday night. We’ve had numerous eggs thrown at us, we’ve had significant fights outside on the oval, we’ve had beer bottles thrown, we’ve had drunken kids wander into our events, we’ve had 10 year old boys show their head in the door yell out “Jesus, Jesus, Jesus” laugh and then run off… to name a few! (That’s not to mention the naked 16 year old Thugby League team that ran through our Junior Youth Church service on the beach last year!)

The exciting thing is that we’ve had significant conversations with quite a number of these guys (and never had anyone from youth group harmed in any way – it’s good to have large male leaders!) and even had them return the following week (sober) to find out more about Jesus. The great tragedy is that these bored teenagers, looking for something to occupy their time, don’t realise that youth group and Jesus is where the real action is at!!!

A few months ago I posted some thoughts on what Central Coast teenagers are after:

  • Teenagers want to fit in
  • Teenagers want to be where the action is

They don’t know what they’re doing… they don’t know what they’re missing… Central Coast teenagers don’t need better public transport, they don’t need more services, they don’t need more refuge beds, they don’t need an education in how to use a condom, they don’t need to learn where they ought to safely deposit their used syringes, they don’t need to learn safe drinking habits, they don’t need more skate parks, they don’t need cheaper movie tickets… THEY NEED JESUS!! JESUS IS WHERE THE REAL ACTION IS AT! THEY NEED TO HEAR ABOUT THE REAL LIFE THAT THEY CAN HAVE IN JESUS. JESUS LOVES THEM. JESUS DIED AND ROSE FOR THEM. THEY NEED JESUS TO GIVE THEM A HEART TRANSPLANT!!

There are idiots who claim to be youth ministry gurus who say it is stupid to run youth group on a Friday night. My guess is that one of the reasons they have small youth groups is because all of their “Christian” family kids are getting sloshed, stoned and sexed with their mates from school on a Friday night and are still too hung over to be able to turn up to church on the Sunday!

CCECYOUTH Leaders – keep doing what you’re doing! Your labours aren’t in vain (1 Cor 15:58)
CCECYOUTH Teenagers – you are legends! Keep praying for your friends!

Is it time for e(mo)vangelism (here and here)?
How do we reach this hope-less culture with the hope of the gospel?
How can we run youth groups that aren’t dumb and boring – but keep showing people the real deal JESUS?

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HERE is the testimony of one guy who no longer does stupid things on a Friday night. Pray for more!
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Are you a Central Coast Teenager? Go find out about Jesus here… come to simplyJESUS… come to ccecyouth… be where the REAL action is!

THE Wedding of 2007

I’ve already been bagged by people for the photos that I took on Saturday. Here they are. Quite creative… don’t you think? All taken on my phone…

Youth Ministry: Erina Fair & Central Coast Culture

Guthers and Row both sent this smh article to me today. It’s about Erina Fair here on the Central Coast. The article talks about how both old and young alike, with too much time on their hands, hang out there. Here’s a snippet:

After dark on Friday there are hundreds of children in the shopping centre, some drunk. A 13-year-old boy with a heavy cough sits with a 19-year-old drug addict. Later, a 10-year-old boy licking a McDonald’s soft-serve stands in the melee around one of five fights that break out that night. As 300 children rush from flashpoint to flashpoint, they are funnelled into the corridors of the shopping centre. Five security guards and a few police officers try to defuse the fights, but they are overwhelmed by the number and erratic nature of the group.

We read it tonight at a youth group leaders meeting. I’m interested to hear your thoughts (whether you’re from the Central Coast or not) on this article…

How does it help us think about culture on the Central Coast?
How does it help us to think about reaching teenagers in that culture?
+ any other reflections…

Prayer Friday #24

> Nath and Rach wedding tomorrow (sermon prep too)
> J-walk – best issue ever launching tonight
> Philippians 3 sermon for Sunday night
> Good (not too many fights) weekend with family