GUILTY PLEASURE // RAISING AWARENESS OF THE HARMFUL EFFECTS OF PORN

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It’s not just religious nuts who think that pornography is harmful. Today I heard Dr William Struthers, a neurologist from the USA, speak on the harmful impact porn has on the brain. He is in Australia doing some events during June with non profit Guilty Pleasure. This was my first introduction to Guilty Pleasure, but it looks like they have some really valuable resources on this topic.

Here’s some more info from their about page:

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FIGHT 4 PURITY IN A PORN-SOAKED WORLD

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Gentlemen… Do you struggle with porn? Then you should join in Tim Challies’ 31 Days of Purity. I know many young Christian guys who know that this behaviour is destructive and yet feel like they are losing the battle to fight against it.

Have you overcome a prior addiction to porn? You should still consider joining Tim Challies’ 31 Days of Purity. I have some software on my computer called Covenant Eyes. When I was studying at Moore College, the lovingly College paid for all students to have this accountability software. When I finished college I decided that, even though porn wasn’t a present struggle, it was worth keeping the software to help remain pure.

Just this last week I thought it might be time to get rid of Covenant Eyes as it sometimes takes a little bit to log on. But I’m convicted of the wisdom in leaving it on my computer. Tim Challies recent article When you’re at your best plan for your worst was a great word to not let my guard down:

There is a kind of weakness, a kind of vulnerability, that may come when we are convinced of our strength. It is when we are not being tempted, it is when we are standing strong in the Lord’s grace, that we ought to consider the times we will be weak and tempted and eager to sin. We need to assume such times will come and we need to use the moments of strength to put measures in place that will protect us when we are weak.

Sounds wise, right?

31 Days of Purity will be taking place throughout March 2014. Here is Day 1. My tip for Australian readers is to stay a day behind because of the posting time.

Here’s the invite from Challies:

Men, I want to offer you a challenge. You too, women, but allow me speak to the men first. Beginning on March 1, I am going to begin a program I’m calling 31 Days of Purity. This is for all of us—for those who are young and those who are old, for those who are married and those who are single, for those who struggle mightily in the area of sexual sin and for those who may barely struggle at all. I would love it if you would commit with me to 31 Days of Purity—thirty-one days of considering what God’s Word says about sexual purity and thirty-one days of praying that God would help us fight sin and pursue holiness in this area.

As well as following along at challies.com you can join a Facebook group with (at the moment) almost 2000 other dudes wanting to fight to be holy.

Who’s keen?

IS SEXTING REALLY SEX? @FERVR #TSBTB

What is ‘sex’? How do we define sexual activity? Is sex just penis-vagina intercourse or are kissing, fingering or oral sex also seen as ‘sex’? Surely sending a sexy photo or texting suggestive stuff is just a bit of fun, isn’t it? Dr Patricia Weerakoon (author of Teen Sex By the Book) delves into this tricky area in this Teen Sex By the Book video.

Find out more about Dr Patricia Weerakoon’s fantastic new book Teen Sex By The Book(#TSBTB) here or on the official site here.

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HOW FAR IS TOO FAR? @FERVR #TSBTB

Where do you draw the line as a Christian in a relationship? What happens if you do cross that line? Stef Overhall (Disciple of Jesus and Youth Leader) sets us straight on this topic.

Find out more about Dr Patricia Weerakoon’s fantastic new book Teen Sex By The Book(#TSBTB) here or on the official site here.

CONGRATULATIONS TO NATHAN LEE who won a free copy of the book via the competition on my original post.

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FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS – SURELY IT’S JUST HARMLESS FUN! @FERVR #TSBTB

Is having a friend with benefits just good harmless fun? Chris Overhall (Assistant Minister and Leader of Youth Ministry) looks at this topic and shares why the answer to this question a resounding ‘no’!

Find out more about Dr Patricia Weerakoon’s fantastic new book Teen Sex By The Book (#TSBTB) here or on the official site here.

CONGRATULATIONS TO NATHAN LEE who has won a free copy of the book via the competition on my original post.

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WHAT’S SO BAD ABOUT PORN? // @FERVR #TSBTB

A recent study showed that among 13-16 years old, 93% of males and 62% of females have seen pornography online. So with so many teenagers accessing it, the question is, is porn harmless fun or is it doing more damage than we release? Dave Miers (Minister, Youth Evangelist and Blogger) tackles this question for us in this Teen Sex By the Book video.

Recommended for Mature Audiences (check with your folks if you’re under 15)

Find out more about Dr Patricia Weerakoon’s fantastic new book Teen Sex By The Book (#TSBTB) here or on the official site here.

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DOES GOD HATE SEX? // @FERVR #TSBTB

What does playful, fun and romantic sex have to do with God? Most people believe that God is a ‘killjoy’ who doesn’t want you to have fun sex. Is that true? Steve and Naomi Chong (Leaders of Kirkplace Presbyterian Church and the RICE movement) share their thoughts on these questions and more in this Teen Sex By The Book video.

Find out more about Dr Patricia Weerakoon’s fantastic new book Teen Sex By The Book (#TSBTB) here or on the official site here.

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